How we behave, feel, and handle situations are majorly an outcome of our mental health. For this reason, we cannot ignore the importance of our mental well-being. Because it affects not only us but also our surroundings, loved ones, and overall life.
The question is, what is considered good mental health? What are the key elements?
In my eyes, there are 4 key elements :
1. Genetic Makeup -
Mental illnesses like depression, bipolar disorder, panic disorder, schizophrenia, etc., can be transferred through genetic makeup.
If a mother has depression, most likely the child will develop that too in the upcoming years. But having the genes doesn’t necessarily mean that it is destined. One may have the genes in the system, but to activate those genes, environmental circumstances play a major role.
Data proves that depression has around 50%, bipolar disorder 60-70%, schizophrenia 70-80%, and anxiety 40% heritability risk to genetic makeup.
2. Childhood -
Childhood trauma, like any kind of abuse, neglect, separation, etc., can significantly increase the risk of mental health issues. Lack of care, parental love and connection, and breakup of parents are classic examples of early life trauma.
One of my favourite personas, Dr Gabor Mate, says beautifully, ''The child’s needs are simple: attachment and authenticity. Trauma occurs when we are forced to choose between the two.''
In the UK, studies show that the highest rates of mental health issues are caused by childhood trauma.
Worldwide statistics show that 6 in 10 children under the age of 5 are regularly being abused by their primary caregivers. Some cultures normalize the abuse in the name of discipline and building character.
Alarmingly, 1 in 5 women and 1 in 7 men experience sexual abuse in their childhood globally. That is more than 1 billion people!
3. Life Experiences -
Financial stability can have a major impact on one’s mental well-being. Stable income, a safe roof over the head, is a measure of secure life quality.
43% people who are dealing with unemployment have poor mental health and have a higher risk of mortality.
Breakups and divorces are considered to be important life experiences. Research shows that divorce or breakup can increase the risk of emotional dysregulation, anxiety, depression, substance abuse, and suicidal thoughts.
Global data shows 27% of women (age 15-49) and 17% of men worldwide are victims of Intimate Partner Violence (IVP), which can also be classified as domestic violence. That is more than 600 million women and 700 million men we are talking about! Almost 50% of these survivors suffer from depression, PTSD, anxiety disorder, suicidal ideation, etc.
4. Health -
Physical and mental health are simply two sides of the same coin. One cannot exist without the other part.
Chronic pain, illness, long-term hospital stay, poor sleeping schedule, etc., cause a high level of cortisol, leading to stress, anxiety, panic, and depressive disorder.
These mental illnesses are significantly related to cardiovascular and hormonal dysregulation, affecting the entire immune system.
A balanced routine and lifestyle consisting of a healthy diet and physical activity can lower stress hormone cortisol, increase happy hormone dopamine, and balance adrenaline. Also reducing inflammation, avoiding substances that alter brain chemistry are smart moves to improve physical and mental well-being.
Overall, genetics, childhood, life events, and health give the shape of our mental well-being. All humans are bound by these four elements. And each elements are proven by data and studies that how we cope, connect, function, and survive in life are a combined outcome of all. The numbers related to these are a wake up call that prioritising the emotions and feelings is undeniably necessary.

